Reveal Where Your Gaps Are In Creating Sustainable Intimacy With Your Partner Through Parenting.
Do you and your partner still feel like you are on Love Island, or has having kids made it feel like you your on solo islands trying to cross the ocean back to each other?
Don't worry; so many couples go through what you are currently going through and, if you're here, it is not too late!
This short assessment helps you understand why moments that should feel small keep turning into emotional blowups, or initiate the Cold War Weekend Silence.
It’s for the times when:
- You’re talking about bedtime routines, screen time limits, or expectations for your kids… and it inevitably turns into one or both of you becoming defensive, withdrawn, or snapping in frustration.
- You try to bring something up calmly, but end up over-explaining just to get your point across before they interrupt with their anger.
- You stop sharing what you think should happens and ask for “forgiveness” later…not because you don’t want to include your partner, but because it feels easier to have the argument later right now.
- You’re lying in bed, stewing in resentment because yet again, one raised voice at your opinion meant you “gave in” to to keep the peace…but it feels anything but peaceful in your body and heart.
- You love each other. Your relationship has always been built on adoration and respect…but parenting didn’t come with a manual, and you feel lost and alone in the work of parenting a human you both want the best for.
- You wonder why you’re both exhausted, disconnected, and tense… even though you’re “on the same side”
This assessment helps you see what’s actually happening in those moments; beneath the words, beneath the reactions.
It’s not about blaming your partner or you.
And it’s not about “trying harder.” (Seriously, you guys are doing great…I know that because you’re here.)
It’s about understanding the patterns your body goes into under the stressful decision-making process that impacts you and the living heart that lives outside your body. Because I promise, you’re not fighting about the “thing,” you’re fighting about you believe will or won’t happen because the “thing” is or isn’t done.
And once you figure out those underlying values and beliefs your carrying, that’s when you turn these conflicts into opportunities for connection and teamwork, not isolation and tension.
Reveal Where Your Gaps Are In Creating Sustainable Intimacy With Your Partner Through Parenting.
Do you and your partner still feel like you are on Love Island, or has having kids made it feel like you your on solo islands trying to cross the ocean back to each other?
Don't worry; so many couples go through what you are currently going through and, if you're here, it is not too late!
This short assessment helps you understand why moments that should feel small keep turning into emotional blowups, or initiate the Cold War Weekend Silence.
It’s for the times when:
- You’re talking about bedtime routines, screen time limits, or expectations for your kids… and it inevitably turns into one or both of you becoming defensive, withdrawn, or snapping in frustration.
- You try to bring something up calmly, but end up over-explaining just to get your point across before they interrupt with their anger.
- You stop sharing what you think should happens and ask for “forgiveness” later…not because you don’t want to include your partner, but because it feels easier to have the argument later right now.
- You’re lying in bed, stewing in resentment because yet again, one raised voice at your opinion meant you “gave in” to to keep the peace…but it feels anything but peaceful in your body and heart.
- You love each other. Your relationship has always been built on adoration and respect…but parenting didn’t come with a manual, and you feel lost and alone in the work of parenting a human you both want the best for.
- You wonder why you’re both exhausted, disconnected, and tense… even though you’re “on the same side”
This assessment helps you see what’s actually happening in those moments; beneath the words, beneath the reactions.
It’s not about blaming your partner or you.
And it’s not about “trying harder.” (Seriously, you guys are doing great…I know that because you’re here.)
It’s about understanding the patterns your body goes into under the stressful decision-making process that impacts you and the living heart that lives outside your body. Because I promise, you’re not fighting about the “thing,” you’re fighting about you believe will or won’t happen because the “thing” is or isn’t done.
And once you figure out those underlying values and beliefs your carrying, that’s when you turn these conflicts into opportunities for connection and teamwork, not isolation and tension.
